Have you ever had to say goodbye to a place that feels like home? It’s an emotional journey that involves packing up not just belongings, but memories as well. My recent move from Eldoret to Nanyuki has been just that—a journey through unexpected grief, nostalgia, and the hope of new beginnings.
The Silent Farewell
Saying goodbye to Eldoret was more than just leaving a physical location; it was about leaving a part of myself behind.
Memory Lane
Walking through Eldoret was like flipping through the pages of a cherished storybook. It was home. Every corner held a memory:
- The busy streets: The bustling energy of the new city was more than business—it was where I shared smiles and stories with familiar faces.
- Oh my friends: Eldoret was not just a collection of tall buildings and houses; it held my social life and family. Overtime the faces had evolved from strangers to a makeshift family. Our coffee dates at Clara’s, catch-ups at our favorite joint at Bhupe’s… I miss these moments.
“You never really leave a place you love. Part of it you take with you, leaving a part of yourself behind.” — Author Unknown
Nanyuki Life.
The transition to Nanyuki brought its own palette of colors and experiences, each offering a new perspective on daily life.
Discovering Beauty in the Unknown
Nanyuki has slowly begun to reveal its treasures to me, inviting exploration and new experiences.
- Mountain Views: The majestic glimpses of Mount Kenya at dawn have become a refreshing contrast to Eldoret’s lush landscapes. It is scenic.
a). Mt. Kenya from a far. - Diversity: The vibrant mix of cultures and traditions here paints a picture of diversity that is as educational as it is fascinating. We have a mixture of blacks and whites often interacting that gives Nanyuki its touristic town tag.
Making New Memories
Engaging with Nanyuki’s way of life means opening my heart to create fresh memories.
- Local Eateries: I’ve started discovering local cafes, each with its own signature dish. At the moment I am in love with Gawanaz Nyama Choma.
- Community Engagement: Meeting new faces, attending local events, and learning about the norms have begun to weave new patterns into the fabric of my life.
- Engaging with Nature: Nanyuki is the home of nature and wild animals. There are many spots that offers nature activities like hiking and bird watching. I am only two months old here and I can’t wait to explore.
How do I move forward when my heart is torn between two towns? I believe moving through this emotional terrain requires vulnerability and a willingness to embrace change.
Coping Mechanisms: Finding My Balance
- Stay Connected: Maintaining connections with friends from Eldoret through regular calls and social media keeps those old bonds alive and comforting, even from afar.
- Open Exploration: I’m giving myself the freedom to explore Nanyuki with an open heart, knowing that every new place can offer meaningful experiences and relationships.
- Day Trips Back: Planning visits back to Eldoret occasionally soothes my homesickness and reminds me that home is not a place, but a feeling.
Leaving a familiar place behind introduces an unexpected kind of grief, but it also creates growth through rediscovery. Each experience in Nanyuki is adding a new chapter to my story, enriching it with diversity and resilience. It’s okay to mourn what I left behind while celebrating the opportunity for new memories. After all, every ending is just the beginning of something new, cherished, and uncharted.
